Tuesday, November 2, 2010

The good with the bad

It is only Tuesday and already this week my emotions are shot!!

Sunday I got mad at Brandon for choosing to go work the Haunted House instead of going Trick or Treating with the kids and I. He has been working the Haunted House for years and it is something he loves doing. It is for a good cause but I wanted him home to celebrate it with us.

Monday I posted all of our babies items up for sale. The swings, the jumperoo, the bumbo, the bouncy chair....Kind of confirming that we are done with babies. We aren't doing anything permanent yet, but we both have agreed that in 5 years if we decide we want one more we will be in a better place financially, and can buy all new stuff for our baby. However in five years both of my babies will be very independent kids, and we probably won't want another one.

Tuesday was Court day. My daughter is not biologically my husbands. He has been raising her since she was 9 months old and they are inseparable. She calls him daddy and he will tell you that he has 2 kids. It is actually funny how many people say she looks just like him. Her biological father has not been a part of her life since she was 3 weeks old. Maybe seeing her a handful of times the 1st year she was born. When we got divorced she was to remain with me and he would pay us child support. We have asked him numerous times to sign over his rights and each time he has said no. He was put in jail for domestic abuse and child endangerment and while he is in jail he didn't want to pay child support....Luckily I have the world's best In-Laws that found and paid for a lawyer for us. Today at court it was settled that her biological father is to pay child support until January and we will go back to court then to discuss the matter again!! Here is to saying our prayers and hoping that by January he will want to sign over his rights!!

Wednesday we are meeting with our Parents As Teachers lady!! I am so excited!!

Thursday is Brandon and I's 1 year wedding anniversary

Friday maybe I will be able to relax.....


  1. Sounds like a crazy week! I'm glad you're doing PATS---we LOVE it!!

  2. I am glad we finally got in!! They have been full!!